Most of the North American Pakistani Community or the one in the UK try to distance themselves from the Pakistani culture and ways ( fobby ) behaviour and try to assimilate in to the environment. They do not want to be associated with anything from Pakistan. Not all but most, like to speak English and do not even know Urdu and like to dress up in the western attire.
Is it that we are ashamed, perhaps disappointed, in our Pakistani culture?
I have grown up in the US and have never met someone of Pakistani descent who wants to disassociate with ALL aspects of Pakistani culture.