So I think its better to grab Pakistani lads in thier mid 30's. :)
Been there done that.
What you do have to remember is that men have egos that need to be nursed, just never forget that bit and its all smooth sailing.
Its obvious there is charm in pursuing .. women should never be hasty in going after men.. if their is any chemistry men would certinly pursue..
an amazing poem by faraz in this context..
us ne kahaa sun
ahad nibhaane kii Khaatir mat aanaa
ahad nibhaanevaale aksar majabuurii yaa
mahajuurii kii thakan se lauTaa karate hai.n
tum jaao aur dariyaa dariyaa pyaas bujhaao
jin aaNkhon men Duubo
jis dil men bhii utaro
merii talab aavaaz na degii
lekin jab merii chaahat aur merii Khvaahish kii lau
itanii tez aur itanii uuNchii ho jaaye
jab dil rode
tab lauT aanaa
^ laikin aana zaroor? how cheap. rotay huay tak picha na chorna.
I like it when women try different things to get boys. Makes life much easier for us men. :hehe
So the new trend is being “ASSertive”? Cool! :k:
^ rehnay day rehnay day. why dont u simply say tum say yeh kaam khud aasani say nahi hota.
faltoo may bandiyoan pay daal raha hay.
'assertive women, new trend, cool'. oh plllllllllllzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
Madhanee share ur secret please 
teach me 
mean but funny
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^ rehnay day rehnay day. why dont u simply say tum say yeh kaam khud aasani say nahi hota.
faltoo may bandiyoan pay daal raha hay.
'assertive women, new trend, cool'. oh plllllllllllzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
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I think I wasted a few brain cells reading that.
^ perhaps. but no where near comparable in number u did thinking up that line (10 minute tag there).
Degas if I like something i go and get it, becasue if im correct if i wait any longer i may have to get in line, and waiting around for someone else to make first/seconnd/third moves isnt my style.
And o, if the man is insecure to dislike that then the he is a dork indeed. 
You know, this type of threads are funny because all the frustrated bachiyan of GS come here and “female dog” and complain about guys not making the first move, guy not being mature, and what not. What annoys them more is that guys eat ghee-based food or curry, thus those guys become dorks 
Nothing wrong for a woman to initiate the first step (towards marriage)…
It was Bibi Khadija 
who first asked for the Holy Prophet :saw:'s hand in marriage…
A woman being thought of as being too forward to ask for marriage is a cultural phenomenon ad has nothing to do with Islam…Islam totally accepts the fact that a woman can approach a man if she likes him and vice versa…
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However, I have seen that women initiated relationships arent as balanced.. often the guy uses that as a comeback..ie tum hi meray peechay paree thi..
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i agree..
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^ perhaps. but no where near comparable in number u did thinking up that line (10 minute tag there).
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Accckkk ... More ... brain ... cells ... dying ... arrghh
Threads like this never seem to come to a conclusion. Everyday I come here and read threads about a man's built, money, race, education, how a man can never made a decision, how men are afraid of strong women, men behaving badly, or rejecting men due some insignificant idiosyncrasy, blah blah blah blah...........
GIVE IT A FREAKIN REST AND GET A LIFE ALL THOSE WHO HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO THEN POINT FINGERS AT MEN!!!
I have my faults but I am sure some of you here are worse!
If you want to discuss something then tell me why most of you prefer a rich man over poor? Tall over short? Good looking over mediocre?
Well thats 4 minutes too many wasted. I am switching to Cricketnama
^ Dont worry the women usually fall into two categories.
If their single ** all men ** are ____________.
If their married ** one man** is a ____________.
( fill in the blanks as you see fit)
Lets be honest if it wasnt for sex most men wouldnt even bother.
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Accckkk ... More ... brain ... cells ... dying ... arrghh
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sheesh. u took the whole day for coming up with this one^.
eeww. so much degeneration, since the last time yr brain cells got wasted. aww, poor thing.
i didnt knew u could even act smart with dishing out fill_in_the_blanks, post after post.
Read the feedback forum, dont wanna get 10 warning points for using *******.