Re: Asking husband's permission....
Which surah and verse?
woh nahi pata but i can find out for u if u want :D
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um i thought u r a brother. 
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to see your parents/family? or to go anywhere at all.
How many of you women do it? And whether you do it or not, what do you think about it?
Permission...No. Informing him....Yes.
The conversation begins with something similar to "Hun I'm going to visit my parents on xxxx date.."....or "I'm thinking of going to visit parents on xxxx date...do you have any plans for that weekend for us?". I don't EVER say anything similar to "Can I visit my parents on xxxx date?".
He is more than welcome to say that he would prefer I pick another date b/c he already made "plans" for us or he wants me with him for some other event.....But that's about it. I'm more than happy to negotiate another date provided he actually has a logical reason for me not to go on the dates I picked.
Same applies to visiting friends, going out for whatever reason.
And on a side note, no, I don't expect HIM to ask my permission either. He also INFORMS me when he's visiting his parents, friends etc. If I don't want him to go for whatever reason...I let him know and we discuss it.
It's about being PARTNERS......I'm not his mother and he's not my father.
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I've never seen my mother ask my dad for 'permission'. That would seem so odd for me.
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to see your parents/family? or to go anywhere at all.
How many of you women do it? And whether you do it or not, what do you think about it?
Be honest!
I don't need to ask for his permission, but I keep him informed. If it's a plan that is going to impact him too, we talk about it together before making a committment. He does the same.
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I've never seen my mother ask my dad for 'permission'.
This too! Never heard my mom ask my dad "permission" to go anywhere.
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you should not even step out of your room, let alone your house - without taking your husband's permission ...
bas keh diya
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Now that I look at it, even if I'm going to the grocery store I tell him. If it's a big thing such as traveling back home to visit my family, of course we need to plan it out so in essence, I do take his permission...
I don't see a big problem here...he does the same.
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you should not even step out of your room, let alone your house - without taking your husband's permission ...
bas keh diya
u ki wife u ko bardasht kaisy kar rahi hai heheheh
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I don't see why should we make it an issue of ego. Both husband and wife can take 'permission' from each other or advise about their respective program. It varies from couple to couple and each couple has different way of working. Call it permission or informing, the aim is to keep the relationship going on smoothly.
Re: Asking husband's permission....
u ki wife u ko bardasht kaisy kar rahi hai heheheh
u ko pooch ke u ko kiya milay ga
Re: Asking husband's permission....
u ki wife u ko bardasht kaisy kar rahi hai heheheh
He ki wife bhot achi hai isi liye he ko bardasht ker rahi hai. Read Niksik's reply above. TLK is one lucky guy :D
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He ki wife bhot achi hai isi liye he ko bardasht ker rahi hai. Read Niksik's reply above. TLK is one lucky guy :D
U ko bolne kee bohut aadat hai. U chup karo g.
Re: Asking husband’s permission…
Oye baba 
, I said he does the same
Re: Asking husband’s permission…
isnt U ki and me ki cafe’ language:emmy:
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u ko koi takleef agar girls me ki post kee reply kar rahi hain
Re: Asking husband’s permission…
cafe’ syndrome…
nai janab…continue continue:hehe:
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I'm not married but in my view; what real harm would it be to ask his permission just out of courtesy and respect? If he is a good husband, he's hardly going to refuse anyway. It's this 'ego' that ruins marriages.
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Haan tau pehly U acha behave kerti hogi tab hi he bhi acha behave kerty hon ge na 
Wife achi ho tau husband ko bhi acha banna parta hai
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I'm not married but in my view; what real harm would it be to ask his permission just out of courtesy and respect? If he is a good husband, he's hardly going to refuse anyway.It's this 'ego' that ruins marriages.
Thats exactly what I think. If I 'ask' my husband, I don't think he is going to stop me from doing anything. Even if he stops me and I do as he says, I wonder if he again stops me unless he is insane. This relationship is based on trust and friendship and with time, I hope a husband and wife understands each other well enough to manage these issues amicably.