Asking husband's permission....

[Mirch]

Re: Asking husband’s permission…

@BlueBells

I don’t see why people are arguing about this so much. What if your husband has already told you that you don’t need permission when visiting friends or family? Why is there a need to “ASK” just to make him feel empowered when there’s absolutely no need for it. I’ll just tell him, like he knows he needs to tell me so none of us are worried when we come back to an empty home. And when you ‘inform’ the other person, you are pretty much asking him anyway, if he has an issue with you not going anywhere in particular, he’ll let you know and you guys can reason/talk it through and if his reasoning is justified, you just don’t go.
If he has issues with you visiting your family, then the problem doesn’t lie in whether you asked him for permission or not. It runs deeper than that and you’d have to talk it out. That’s just not normal and take my word for it, a lot more must be going in the relationship if he’s forbidding his wife from visiting her family than it just being a matter of “she didn’t ask my permission”.

Yep if your pre-nuptial agreement includes this permission then you have got an open visa and there is no need to ask.