ask anyone any question

[TLK]

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh u seeeeeeeeeeeeeee firenze think i m dumb

Thanks TLK :) I didn't know that we can go on invisible...and where is that mode?

Second horizontal menu bar from top, last option before log out on the right side is "quick links". Hit that and then go down to 'Edit Options'. In the Edit Option page, first section is Privacy, There you will find the Invisible Mode box. CLick the check mark there and you are done

[firenze]

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh u seeeeeeeeeeeeeee firenze think i m dumb

Thanks TLK :) I didn't know that we can go on invisible...and where is that mode?

how did you know that ? :o

[S08]

Re: ask anyone any question

Thanks TLK :)

[Gr8Heera]

Re: ask anyone any question

Firenze why you run like cheetah? I don't ask dumb questions. Only Intelligent one. I got this intelligence from a very genius person on this earth.

[S08]

@firenze

how did you know that ? :o

[maroush]

@TLK

Maroush, please share with us the normal lady like activities that you are involved in. I guess all us guys feel pretty intimidated with your rock climbing and wishes like going to space or flying a plane. Leave those for us macho guys and tell us more about your sewing stitching cooking stuff and your dreams of living in a castle and riding a white horse carriage (as oppose to riding a white horse)

Sorry to burst your pseudo bubble bhai, but i don’t know how to sew…i so wish i did though so i could create my own cool, original collection of clothes… and you can ask your wife that i steal her recipes, so i sure as hell don’t know how to cook that well… Monsieur Maroush can also vouch for that!

I’m a shopaholic though, just as much, if not even more, than the next lady

And don’t feel intimidated… trust me, i am nothing compared to some of the other older women in my family…they are my true inspiration

Another Q: So you opted for Engineering instead… just like that?? I guess, if not Medicine either, then it would be Law… the 3 predefined majors one is expected to do in a desi household

@firenze

^ .. i am remembering. .the thread.. I am not maroush..

on the serious note, i truly feel maroush as fine lady & cultured … wallah-o-alam !

That thread…!!! i had a dichotomy of 2 feelings: it was nice to see a thread dedicated to me…but it was also very strange… it was darn funny though

And thank you Florence jee … i think you’re a fine… boy

[X2]

Thanks for answering.

So You mean you guys have strong understanding?

Would you tell your kids ever that you are not their real parent?

Do you have any fear or something that they would leave you one day for their real parent?

Sorry if these questions bother you then don't answer.

we have a very good understanding, that does not mean we agree on everything, but we know what is no go topics/perspectives are and each others likes dislikes etc enough to navigate together without clashes.

I will defintely tell the kids they are adopted, that is the right thing to do from a religious, psychological and trust perspective. we have started telling them already.

Fear of them leaving us is not a major concern, but I suppose that can happen. seen enough people leave their parents or mistreat them that adopted or not, one has to be ready for that possibility, build enough of a relationship that it is less likely and be financially independent regardless. Thats what my folks did they dont have to depend on any us financially, emotionally abandonment can have its own issues, but why worry about it.

No the questions dont bother me.

[TLK]

@Gr8Heera

TLK what change you want to bring on GS which you can’t due to some problem?

I am not sure if I want to bring any major change. I would rather have GS evolve into even a better place then to make an improvement or bring a ‘needed change’. They say if its not broken, dont fix it ..

@sheyn

I can just imagine U doing that ! Giggling like a girl !!!

who said anything about giggling** like a girl**

[X2]

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niksik and tlk how did you meet?
who pursued who? :)

[maroush]

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^ Dammit i wanted to ask that… but i know i would’ve got a Bata chappal from Nik or Tlk bhai… :hinna:

Bolo bolo…

[X2]

Re: ask anyone any question

look TLK and niksik are way too stylish to still be walking around in bata chappals.

[Gr8Heera]

we have a very good understanding, that does not mean we agree on everything, but we know what is no go topics/perspectives are and each others likes dislikes etc enough to navigate together without clashes.

I will defintely tell the kids they are adopted, that is the right thing to do from a religious, psychological and trust perspective. we have started telling them already.

Fear of them leaving us is not a major concern, but I suppose that can happen. seen enough people leave their parents or mistreat them that adopted or not, one has to be ready for that possibility, build enough of a relationship that it is less likely and be financially independent regardless. Thats what my folks did they dont have to depend on any us financially, emotionally abandonment can have its own issues, but why worry about it.

No the questions dont bother me.

Nice answers thank you.

As you adopted so I think you can understand it better and answer it better.

Kia un logon ko jin kay pass daulat achchi khasi ho laikin aulaad(ain) bhi hon phir bhi kum uz kum aik ghareeb buchchay ko adopt kerna chahyay yank unko jo yateen aur yaseer hon takay unki madad ho ya wo itna achcha care naheen kar sakain gay?

[firenze]

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@X2

look TLK and niksik are way too stylish to still be walking around in bata chappals.

[TLK]

@X2

niksik and tlk how did you meet?
who pursued who?

she was hesitant to initiate so I helped her with the initiation

@maroush

^ Dammit i wanted to ask that… but i know i would’ve got a Bata chappal from Nik or Tlk bhai… :hinna:

Bolo bolo…

@X2

look TLK and niksik are way too stylish to still be walking around in bata chappals.

’
No, no, Maroush is right. I was clever enough to wear bata chappal to my wedding ceremony so during joota chupaa’i rasam, I lost no money. I simply took out another pair from my KaparY Kaa Thailaa that I carried with me and wore that one back home.

That bata kee chappap, she must be talking about.

[Gr8Heera]

@TLK

I am not sure if I want to bring any major change. I would rather have GS evolve into even a better place then to make an improvement or bring a ‘needed change’. They say if its not broken, dont fix it ..

who said anything about giggling** like a girl**

Thanks for answering.

So it means GS yaksaniaat ka shikaar rahay ga?

Why did you change as you use to be funny.

Kia GS kay Director ki kursi pay baith kar aap ki gardan fakhr ya ghuroor say akar jaati hai ya normal rehtay hain?

Do you guys discuss about GS things and topics and administrative stuff in home?

Kia agar Niki didi involve naheen hoteen GS pay aur wo aap ko mana karteen kay Directorship chor do to aap chor detay ya Niki didi ki naheen suntay?

This question is for TLK, Niki and X2

Do you guys share or tell your password for bank account(s), credit card(s), gs account passwords and email account(s) passwords? Yes or no why?

[firenze]

@Gr8Heera

Do you guys share or tell your password for bank account(s), credit card(s), gs account passwords and email account(s) passwords? Yes or no why?

[S08]

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^oh plz get a life

[Gr8Heera]

@firenze

Aur peeto sir ko aap ka hi maththa phootay ga.

You didn’t answer my question Kum uz kum maththa hi peet lia hota.

[njgal]

@TLK

because we all decided to be on invisible mode. You also have that option available Same, if you choose to use it

there is an invisible mode???

(njgal does not like this multi nick - invisible facade - kinda wierd and bit 1984ish george orwell)

[TLK]

@Gr8Heera

Thanks for answering.

So it means GS yaksaniaat ka shikaar rahay ga?

Why did you change as you use to be funny.

Kia GS kay Director ki kursi pay baith kar aap ki gardan fakhr ya ghuroor say akar jaati hai ya normal rehtay hain?

Do you guys discuss about GS things and topics and administrative stuff in home?

Kia agar Niki didi involve naheen hoteen GS pay aur wo aap ko mana karteen kay Directorship chor do to aap chor detay ya Niki didi ki naheen suntay?

This question is for TLK, Niki and X2

Do you guys share or tell your password for bank account(s), credit card(s), gs account passwords and email account(s) passwords? Yes or no why?

Evolution is opposite of yaksaaniyat. Yaksaaaniyat is being static. GS is a living breathing entity, it will find its own path and will move in that direction. It has done that over the period of time and will continue to do that.

Bhai, GS directorship is a responsibilty, not an authority. I am not here because I won an election. I was given that responsibilty based on the trust that mgmt board has on me and to honor that trust is not an easy job. Their is no time for any ghuroor, nor there is any need for that.

I am still the same funny guy, only that now I have to think twice before I say anyting cause anything that I say can be taken in a differnet context. Initially I was responsible for my personal reputation, now what I say or do can affect GS’s reputataion., so I am little careful now.

Niki and I do talk about GS, and when I was asked by Azkar/X2/Muzna for the directorship, I was given time to think about it and I checked with Niks also.

and why X2 would share his bank account passowrds with me