you should look younger…without looking like you are faking and being not graceful.
but how? perhaps, in good behavioral manners.
ever saw an uncle saying the contract of marriage with lots of grace and speaking eloquently, and being happy but also having his seniority and experience ready at any second to be enough for someone to listen to him, or an aunty or uncle who have that grace in their over all appearance, voice, attire, way of talking and working as professionals in medicine or academia, or as family or community members.
that they look so fine. and an excellent role model. and they are very much tasteful in their likes and dislikes and the value system that they hold, is not neither arrogant (due to their apparent wealth which they rightfully earned as self-made women and men who sought education and then worked hard as professionals through out their lives) nor devoid of traditions, but they question wrongs and do only right things.
that kind of younger and powerful as well as really likable as elders whom one can share everything. it can be a parent or a grand parent or someone else, like a loving aunt or uncle and a teacher mentor or a long term employer.
what kind of an old man or old woman would you like to be, guppies and gupans? :>
Growing in age is often looked at with sorrow when infact it's the one thing we all ought to look forward to. To grow in age, experience, wisdom and yet remain young is infact a challenge in itself. One that most ignore outright and don't even try to work on.
To remain young while growing old is more simple than thought out to be. All one has to do is to speak wisely, utilize one's experience and display that he/she has grown gracefully while carrying the charisma that makes one able to blend in any crowd whether young or old. Not to enforce old ways on the young folks but rather advice them, share with them what one has learned in similar circumstances, but at the same time observe because learning is not age-specific. We all learn something till the last few moments than we depart to meet with the creator.
i was thinkin the same 
