As you get older

[Reha]

Re: As you get older

@Rasmalaii

do you become less picky about who you want to marry?

I think its quite the opposite actually. I think people become pickier because the criteria is not so easy to meet any longer. Its not hard to find an educated, decent looking guy. Its hard to find an educated, decent looking guy who clicks with you.

@saimab33

I think as you get older, you realize whats really important and whats not, and thats why your “standards” get lower. When your younger, its about looks and money, but as you get older, you realize that what you need is a kind man, who will be nice to you, take care of you, be a good husband and father.

Bingo. The lowering of the standards is not what it seems…I think women or men tend to look for qualities that arent so…obvious. Things that a biodata cannot cover and that makes them pickier. Sometimes you might find an average looking guy who has a heart of gold. Does that mean you have lowered your standards? I dont think so.