If you know your friend is hurting/being mean to someone else, what would you do?
Would you stay out of it as its their business and you don’t even know the “someone else” or would you talk to them?
Re: As a third person...
I would definitely talk to my friend. It's difficult to stay out when you know that somebody is wronging another person.
Wouldn't want any of my friends to be a rotten apple.
Re: As a third person...
^ Same here! I would tell my friend/s frankly about their behaviour!
Re: As a third person...
I would talk to them for sure even if I know or not know the person. But I would do this once and twice and then let go ...because at the end of the day I can just tell ...not spoon-feed my friends..
Re: As a third person...
I would talk to my friend but not get involved too much.
Re: As a third person...
Only bring it up with them if they talk to u bout it....otherwise none of ure business.
Re: As a third person...
One of the best lessons I learned from the school of hard knocks-
If the person being hurt/abused comes to you for help, and if you believe they are being abused, then by all means get involved.
But if you get involved without being sought out for help, even the person who you think is being abused may not appreciate or even like your getting involved.