as a girl

(haram police look away…NOW!)
you’re hanging out with guys.

they make “dirty” (bathroom not sexual) jokes and stuff.

Do you get offended? laugh along and add your own jokes? be oblivious?

:mudhosh:

Re: as a girl

You pretend you didn't hear it. lol

Re: as a girl

Pull my finger. :)

as a girl

This has always been a weird awkward moment! If other girls are present we all just look at each other and laugh, I'm usually never alone with guys during a convo like this unless its my brother or cousins, in that case I have full freedom to tell them what I think about it or laugh along if its actually funny.

Our group of friends circle is pretty candid in my husbands friends and even their wives. I guess everyone is on the same wave length since everyone is married and our husbands have known each other since childhood so sometimes these things come up and everyone laughs. I've also seen some of the email exchanges between my husband and his friends and when guys are talking amongst guys it's pretty gross lol.

I don't think there's anything to get offended by, depends on your relationship with them. If its a random person, I just smile or laugh lightly to not embarrass the other person who just made an inappropriate remark, and be oblivious but it depends on the conversation lol. It's not always funny, someone's its just weird lol.

as a girl

Oblivious for the most part lol

Re: as a girl

is a woman who laughs along less respectable or...un-shareef unattractive?

if someone gets offended does that make her uptight?

Re: as a girl

i guess sometimes people think a girl who takes part in indecent jokes or laughs along is “less respectable/unshareef” but who cares?

IM IZZATLESS AND I KNOW IT :smooth: (giggle giggle you said the s word)

Re: as a girl

WHAT HAPPENED TO THE IZZATS :eek:

If it’s funny, laugh along and 1 up their joke.
If it’s gross, laugh and make a funny face. 1 up if possible.
If it makes me awks, laugh and do something awkward and get made fun of

:chupki:

As far as being unshareef/ haraaaaaam/ etc, meh… it happens.

Re: as a girl

I don't know...can't remember when the last time a guy cracked a potty joke in front of me. But regardless, I'd laugh and call it TMI and walk away. Oh and it never occurred to me wonder what they thought of me...so i guess its not important to me.

Re: as a girl

Some of my female friends are worse than me. As a guy I just laugh it off.

Re: as a girl

ignore it or just gv a smile. i dont contribute to such jokes at all.

Re: as a girl

Our circle of friends is pretty candid. My guy friends, hubby’s guy friends, their GF/fiance/wife whatever…we don’t really have a “filter” around each other. I routinely hear dirty jokes (sexual, bathroom etc.). Doesn’t bother me. I’ll laugh if I find it funny. If its gross I’ll make a face.

If someone has a negative opinion about me b/c of my sense of humor…so be it. That’s their problem. All that means is that that person won’t be hanging out too much with me, my hubby, or even with our circle of friends.

Re: as a girl

Depends.

If he's cute, I try to outdo him. If he's ugly, I slap him.

Re: as a girl

I usually find jokes like that gross and so in a funny way pretend to puke and not listen.

Re: as a girl

Whats a haram police lol

Re: as a girl

^ the ones who would be "HAWWWHAIIII ISTTING WITH A BOY!"

Re: as a girl

^ It’s supposed to be BUWOY. Do it right, Sara! :mad:

Re: as a girl

Plot twist: The girl is a guy! :hayaa:

Re: as a girl

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