…make sure my daughter does not grow up to be a feminist slut? After all upbringing is the responsibility of both parents and it is their job to ensure that kids are brought up in a proper environment playing equal respect to gender as well as culture and traditions of the motherland.
What values could one as a father instill in their daughters where they don’t give up faith and culture in the guise of emancipation and subjective definitions of freedom?
....make sure my daughter does not grow up to be a feminist slut? After all upbringing is the responsibility of both parents and it is their job to ensure that kids are brought up in a proper environment playing equal respect to gender as well as culture and traditions of the motherland.
What values could one as a father instill in their daughters where they don't give up faith and culture in the guise of emancipation and subjective definitions of freedom?
A very legit concern, esp if one is raising their daughter in a gora environment. What measures can you take as a parent to ensure that your daughter does not drift off from the basics of faith, culture and diffidence; and wouldn't get too influenced by the immoral dissolute feminist propaganda?
Reminded me of when Chris Rock said, "my only job as a father... is to keep her off the pole". The man is aces.
....make sure my daughter does not grow up to be a feminist slut? After all upbringing is the responsibility of both parents and it is their job to ensure that kids are brought up in a proper environment playing equal respect to gender as well as culture and traditions of the motherland.
What values could one as a father instill in their daughters where they don't give up faith and culture in the guise of emancipation and subjective definitions of freedom?
In all seriousness? Respect your wife. Do your best to maintain a balanced and decent relationship (MIL/DIL/SIL jhagras)....Cherish the women in your life and I don't mean just matericalistically.
Don't call other women sluts/whores/other nasty names just because they might have done something that goes against your beliefs.
Don't make fun of the way other women look or pick out their physical flaws.
Build her self esteem and self confidence in herself (as well as humility and other characteristics you deem important). low self esteem leads to destructive behavior...
Basically, realize that everything you do while she's young is so important in building her self esteem and view of men.
That was the only purpose of the thread. There was no other. If guppans here can figure out that basic respect is taught by actually walking the walk instead of just talking the talk we wouldn't have such retarded threads on GS.
Who acted all retarded? I’m sorry, but I hope you’re comment wasn’t aimed at my opinions/thoughts from the other thread, if so, than I think that I should clarify: it takes BOTH parents to raise decent, confident children. They each bring something different to the table. And there is nothing wrong with that. I still stand by my convictions that boys benefit from having a strong bond with their fathers because as I am not equipped with the same “parts”…there some things I just don’t know about!
ok, that last line was a joke, but seriously, CM..you seem to be a level headed guy when it comes to child rearing…iA, you’ll make a fabulous father someday…
Oh not directed anybody here. More like directed at the thread about how to raise male children to respect women. This thread was based on that sheer stupidity of that thread and thus equally stupid. There is no difference in the way you raise any gender. You raise both male and female kids to show respect to all, behave properly, be fair, just, equitable and honest. How does that change depending on your gender?
i think that other thread was based on what some/most women have seen in the older generation of men or men that were raised by women and/or men that thought in a more "the first born should be a male and male children are preferred", let's not say that there aren't people(men and women) that thought like that or still think like that.
I guess if any member(regardless of gender) of the family made generalizations, insults or preferences based on gender to your daughter or your son, make sure to correct that family member in front of her/him so she'll/he'll know that atleast her parents/siblings are fair thinking if not half of the world and this applies to the other thread too
....make sure my daughter does not grow up to be a feminist slut? After all upbringing is the responsibility of both parents and it is their job to ensure that kids are brought up in a proper environment playing equal respect to gender as well as culture and traditions of the motherland.
What values could one as a father instill in their daughters where they don't give up faith and culture in the guise of emancipation and subjective definitions of freedom?
You have a great sister, so follow your dad's footsteps ;)