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Next time don't make him hulwa when he is skyping.
On a serious note hulwa takes a lot of effort to get it perfect. As long as u know u r talented that's what matters.
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And to your left is the higher road, clearly you missed it darling!!
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suji ka halwa itna mehnga per gaya 
sisoo app char qul pher ke phonk dein 
sisoo keep trying…IN sha allah one day you will do that :k:
Allah pak app ki pareshaniyaan dour karey Ameen 
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He think he is the king! During wedding he demanded that we give him gold ring? Does he know its haram to wear gold in Islam! Buddha!
One phrase for this:
Baa-adab, baa-naseeb - bay-adam, bay-naseeb.
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Thanks guys for the replies..Some of you think I am being selfish and bratty by bashing my In laws. But there is a limit of tolerating things. Once is ok,twice is ok but continuous bad behaviour is enough.. One has to stand up. I don't need to defend my actions to show you whether I am right or not.. Because I know what I have been through and what they have said and their behaviour.
My FIL is a very shrewd person. He is absurd! He thinks Eating Halal meat is a drama in UK because you can't really trust whether its Halal or not and not good hygiene. Buying non halal meat is from tesco or other supermarkets is better than eating halal meat which is drama and non hygienic. So a knowledge based economy UK is just a drama with regards to halal meat ethics and the meat is not being slaughtered the halal way.. Ugh!
I don't understand the paper plates jokes!
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Limit your contact with him please...koi zaroori nahin hai ke you sit there and have a conversation with him every single time.
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Some people are just like that!!!
My FIL came over to visit and ended up staying at our place for one whole year!! When I cooked for him and served him the food he would say "dekhne ko dil nahin karta". He would rather eat a piece of bread with banana and mayonaise instead of my chicken karahi or whatever food I made him. And mind you, my food is actually not bad. it was the old man who seriously had a problem and I still cant get over all the stuff he said to me!
I was always very positive about buying a bigger house with FIL and MIL and live together as a happy familiy once we had kids. But hell no!!! after all what my MIl and FIL has said to me and done I have realized that my mental health is much more important than them!
The fact that I NEVER replied back to FIL when he did ALL his ridicoulous drama last year has made my husband realize a lot. There was no need for me to anser back to a rude old man whom I was trying to please by serving food to...time has shown a lot
Now he has moved back to MIL and I have distanced myself from FIL so much that I hardly speak to him and when I do speak to him its just a few min per week.
Their loss as they only have one son. I can compromise on my mental wellbeing by living with them!!!
Likewise in your case, you dont need to have a lot of contact with FIL and just let go of his stupid comments.
You dont need to invite him over for a few years!!!just let them be!!!
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Oh my FIL is ur FIL's clone.Same is my story.These type of people prove that their daughters are better wives and daughters.I live in UK. My husband is out on job whole day.I do everything but whenever we skype they think that i do nothing and my seven month old baby and husband eat nothing and are alive on their prayers.My point is they are jealous people and will never appreciate anything..never..even if we cook like zubeda appa they ll find mistakes.So dont worry and always xpect negative comments..
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I try to limit my contact with him and I don't Skype with him regularly either. Just every few days..
Chameli, I understand! I don't get why they think they can do this and all, when they know in few years time, the same son n daughter will have to look after them when there old? Sometimes I don't get how my hubby is their son, he's so naive in these matters while my FIL is so cunning! I haven't spoken to him back either, my blood boils and feels like sayin so many things but I don't .. Just out of respect! I just wish my hubby can see their true colours and not be parents boy!
F3mail, exactly! Even with being pregnant and living alone, I do all the work and manage house stuff! However if it was in Pk, ppl would be relying so much on servants or other people! I bet even their daughter wouldn't work or move a muscle when she's expecting!
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Arrgh! I hate my FIL so much!!
During Skype, he asked my hubby , what did you eat? He said dal, rice and chicken tikka! You know those microwave chicken tikka. So he had objection to it, why microwave chicken tikka? Can't she cook? Make chicken tikka then refreeze it! Omg what is your problem man? I am during my last stage of pregnancy! For god sake, I'm living alone. I can't do much!
And what's wrong with having chicken tikka? As far I know, you people always have k & N frozen food! god!! You people always have frozen food!
Venting!
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A father of a boy demanding the girls' family give him a gold ring? Seriously? Who does that? Actually, I just got another topic idea. Life1 is gonna be spicy this week.
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exactly!