I am introducing you a compromise drawn from the most intelligent conclusions of those thread :
most (wise) people agreed that:
there are plus and minus to both, so it’s a personal choice.
SOmeone accurately said that no one HAVE to get married. Then it means there is no rush either to try to find love (love CAN NOT be forced!) and no rush to find arranged either (or it could be desperate choice, which is very unfair for the other spouse).
SO what if you have not found love, or a suitable proposal ?
Don’t turn bitter, don’t turn desperate.
Instead of jumping to the least bad option…either using arranged marriage as “last option”, or faking love with the most naive person.youcan catch…
You should use your life in a more meaningfull way!
No family? so you have plenty of time to help poor , disabled or sick people! And you long too much for a family, adopt! there are so many poor children in this world who have no one to care for them, either cause family is too poor, mom was too young or parents died…a single parent is so much more hapiness to an orphan than no one to care for him/her !
well if you have a job, work for charity during free time, and care about your kids who go to school and where you meet parents…you’d have to have real bad breath to be isolated:halo:
it’s not must!
but it happens to some people, and a lot of others should have done it, to avoid disasters
Look only good on paper, ground reality is different. Vast majority of humans dont have overflowing compassion. Man is basically cruel and selfish, hardly few have the level of compassion which goes beyond family and friends and only a handful of them have it, which goes beyond racial boundries and comunity. After all how many Angelina Jole you see in Media ?
Plus desire of coorporal pleasures, bonding and love are all natural desries. Extra dose of Compassion is no substitute, nor does it curb them
shish!!! i should have wrote on paper:bummer: too bad i chose internet:halo:
code red i agree with you, homo sapiens are just animals…I had a dream, that one day they could come humans, and be compassionate…but animal nature is just impossible to kill for most people IQ less than 10% most inteligent
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