Re: Arranged to marry at 16, not feeling right...
Living in Pakistan is not an easy deal, especially when you've lived in a foreign country, maybe you could compromise and ask them to bring the guy over to the wherever you are? and have the wedding here? Or u could try stalling, a bit. Its not unreasonable to ask him to come over there, and you should stand up for at least SOMETHING at this point, as i see from your post, your very dejected, and poosibly you've made up your mind about the worst-case scenario,