i cant even begin to tell you the problems ur gonna have with this.
bottom line: its ur life, ur only gonna live it once, and live it the way you want to, not as someone's dying wish.
Also: one can only go so far with one's ideas and tadbeers. We all have to bear with whatever destiny has in store for us, so if u find urself in a situation as such, believe that Allah will have made it better for you.