Re: "arranged" or "love"???comments!!!
so wat we are generally saying here is....
no love...flirt rules!!!!.......OR...
PARENTS SHUD THINK OF THEIR CHILD'S FEELINGS....
CHILD SHUD THINK OF THEIR PARENTS FIRST...
BEING SENSIBLE TOWARDS ALL SIDES AND PARTIES OF THE STORY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i believe....if one feels attracted....towards someone, it develops into love.....he shud in the meantime keep considerinng the parents reaction......
n if there is an expected conflict b/w children n parents....the children shud be able to foresee that ....n try to buffer it off by trying to talk to parents in light mood, ocasions, n on timely basis.....and not dump all the fuss at one time....that hey....mom n dad!!,, i hav decided to marry him/her.....n thats it...
by the way...all those flirt ppl....i mean ppl who say lov dont exist....get real.....
it takes maturity to decide wat feeling has to b called love....so teens .....u better keep in mind that all teenager start off flirting....now hwther or not that develops into somethin like love....depends on whether the person deciding it is matyre enuff or not....
n parents dont oughta think abt children.......its the other way round.....coz parents hav thought abt em all their life.....now at this age its the child's reesponsibilty to go in harmony with their expectations,,,,