n there are incidents that a guy kills him self ( i have read one just now in the newspaper , an 18 year old guy shot himself coz the girl he loved married to someone else by her parent’s will)…n i had read a similar incident not more than a week earlier where a 21 year old did the same…
pyar mein log mar kaisay jaatay hain??..bhaee…theek hai…pyar hai..itni good…enlightening, aur khush-gavar feeling hai…o kia fit cheez hai oye…
per agar wo nai mila/mili…to mar k ghar walon ko kion tension dete ho yar…koi na koi mil jata hai…time heals everythin’…
wat dou guys think…marriage shud be a love marriage or an arranged marriage…???
Pyaar, in a general sense, is really a very broad emotion. It may cover infatuation, lust, love without committment, and love with committment. First of all, it is very important to realize how you really feel. Also, in this emotion, age DOES play an important role. Why? Because age brings maturity and maturity helps you make important decisions of your life carefully.
In my opinion, both parents and love-birds should have an open mind and should be respectful of each others feelings. If a son/daughter falls in love, parents should seriously look into it and talk with their child, discuss all consequences, tell them of their likes and dislikes, make sure that their child would be happy after such a decision, and pray for their prosperity.
On the other hand, person in love should also look around and think of people who are important for him. Respect the opinion of their parents and think of the consequences. Two people cannot live alone without anybody around them. So, think over their decision several times. A lot of times, its just the idea of love people are in love with. So, it is really important to seriously analyze your feeling and then make a final choice. True love is really blind and blindness can be a weakness. Realize that their decision will effect many lives.
Ok, I know I got too philosophical but hey ... thats just me. I will be interested in reading more reviews.
Please think of all the consequences first. Also, think whether it is a real love or just infatuation ... :D that you wanna give up your life for. Do not kill yourself before going through a skull-cracking thinking process that encapsulates all scenarios in both situations.
speaking from experience.. its bloody hard work deciding..
our parents .. culture.. and eastern way of thinking leads us to believe that if we dont obey our parents then our decisions will bring us nothing but unhappiness.. we will never succeed without their blessing.. etc etc etc.. so altho we sometimes build up the courage to make a stand.. we never have the total confidence that we will be successfull..
In the name of love.. someone can commit suicide.. and suicide is a weak, cowardice act.. or is it? Killing yourself is by no means an easy thing to do/???
What pisses me of no end is that people always go on about Lovers being unfaithful to their parents.. and someone said why couldnt they have thought of their parents.. im sorry but why couldnt the parents have thought of them?
yaar bas karo sabb…chiillll okhay …yeah piyaar wiyaar sab backwaas hai…aur main aaj kal kai luv kee baat kar rahee hoonn …luv bohat pehley hi marr chukka aaj kal flirt hai aur bass…aur yeah tu stupidity aur immature honay ki nishaaanee hai yeah khudkushee waghira…****t mannn itna kiy bhoot sawaar ho gaya kai marney chaley…yaar us maa ka bhee tou socho jis nai zindagi aur mout kai darmiayaan main tumhay paida kiya tha..us aik larkee ya larkey kai peechay marney chaley jaatey hain jis ko sirf 4 ya bohat hua tou 6 saal sai jaantey hotay hain..theek hai ma maantee hoon aajj bhee yeah sacha piyaar kaheen na kaheen kis na kisi kai dil mai tou hoga lekin i think only in 2% ppl…aur jahan tak shaadi kee baat hai tou aisee honee chaiyay kai liking bhee ho aur amma abba ke marzee bhee…logon ko lagey arranged hay…that’s all!! likng is something granted but piyaarrr bhool gao yaar…just forget it…apnee life geo aur aish karo in chakron mai parhey nahee aur phir marrey nahi…
i am sorry to sy most people take love in a wrong perspective. love doesn't mean to be self fish. doinya mey hazro chizey pasan ati hey wo sab to app nahi kareedtey ?? why u don't buy every single thing u like why ???
in a same agher kis se piyar kertey hou to aur wo na miley it doesn't mean that u have to kill ur self , logo kush dehk aur kushi dey ke jo kushi milti hey woh to khain bhi nhai milti aur piyar ka mutlab kushi dey na hey na ke aupney peechey hazaro ko rula na hey.
Only person you should love is the one you are married to. Not the one you're going to marry, or hope to marry, but the one yu're already bound to. of course u hav to like the person somewhat, and parents shudn't force u, but ive seen too many ppl who fal in love with their boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance, hoping to get married, bu tthen they break up... I persoanlly just cudn't put myself through the risk, getting my heart broken and not getting him out of my head even if i'm mrried to soemone else..... so um i guess "arranged" for me...
my parents are open minded.
my relatives arent. but screw them. there 5000 miles away, and want to tell me what to do in my life. haha.
i dunno. what i would choose. if i was 30 than arranged. but i dont think i could marry a person that i barely know, or someone i didnt really particularly care for.
BEING SENSIBLE TOWARDS ALL SIDES AND PARTIES OF THE STORY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i believe....if one feels attracted....towards someone, it develops into love.....he shud in the meantime keep considerinng the parents reaction......
n if there is an expected conflict b/w children n parents....the children shud be able to foresee that ....n try to buffer it off by trying to talk to parents in light mood, ocasions, n on timely basis.....and not dump all the fuss at one time....that hey....mom n dad!!,, i hav decided to marry him/her.....n thats it...
by the way...all those flirt ppl....i mean ppl who say lov dont exist....get real.....
it takes maturity to decide wat feeling has to b called love....so teens .....u better keep in mind that all teenager start off flirting....now hwther or not that develops into somethin like love....depends on whether the person deciding it is matyre enuff or not....
n parents dont oughta think abt children.......its the other way round.....coz parents hav thought abt em all their life.....now at this age its the child's reesponsibilty to go in harmony with their expectations,,,,
Killing yourself is by no means an easy thing to do/???
…yeah piyaar wiyaar sab backwaas hai…aur main aaj kal kai luv kee baat kar rahee hoonn 
…luv bohat pehley hi marr chukka aaj kal flirt hai aur bass…aur yeah tu stupidity aur immature honay ki nishaaanee hai yeah khudkushee waghira…****t mannn itna kiy bhoot sawaar ho gaya kai marney chaley…yaar us maa ka bhee tou socho jis nai zindagi aur mout kai darmiayaan main tumhay paida kiya tha..us aik larkee ya larkey kai peechay marney chaley jaatey hain jis ko sirf 4 ya bohat hua tou 6 saal sai jaantey hotay hain..theek hai ma maantee hoon aajj bhee yeah sacha piyaar kaheen na kaheen kis na kisi kai dil mai tou hoga lekin i think only in 2% ppl…aur jahan tak shaadi kee baat hai tou aisee honee chaiyay kai liking bhee ho aur amma abba ke marzee bhee…logon ko lagey arranged hay…that’s all!! likng is something granted but piyaarrr bhool gao yaar…just forget it…apnee life geo aur aish karo 
in chakron mai parhey nahee aur phir marrey nahi… 