Arranged marriages issues in the UK

[Bobby1]

Re: Arranged marriages issues in the UK

@inzi_rocks

Definitely comes down to upbringing on both sides, girls should be taught to have realistic expectations.
Agree with Bobby to some extent, we shouldn’t still be harping on about these gender specific roles - I have no issue with cooking/cleaning etc but a man shouldn’t be taught to EXPECT that from his wife.
Seen lots of mothers that frown upon their sons helping their wife with household tasks - ridiculous.

Anyhow there’s a definite crisis in the UK - unsure what the answer is really.

I am appalled at the horrible upbringings, both my nephews and my wife’s nephews regularly came for feasts at our house, I love to cook and help with dishes and these big strong guys never got up their ass to help and we would even pick up their plates. When we went to my gori x’s house all the guys would get up to help. So how come these highly educated born and raised boys here behave like this. They don’t even bring a box of chocolates to show their appreciation. How many desi boys will cook clean, wash toilets and help with kids? I have told my boys that they always get up to help and never be cheap, my boy takes his gf to nice restaurants and buys her gifts.

I dont think there is a solution to this. People will have to work on improving their offerings, go to the gym, have good manners, be interesting, do interesting stuff have hobbies, workout etc and be ready to look outside one nationality.