**Raises hand. **
**Also, just because I may have been raised somewhere else than him, does NOT mean that I am superior or have any right to act like that. We are both PARTNERS in a relationship. I don’t believe that is “selling myself short” as you said. I don’t know about you, but wouldn’t you rather be given the choice of entering a loving partnership with your cousin, who you know will love you and respect you, or marrying someone like a friend, who might be showing you one face, and acts a totally different way? **
There is no need to deman any of the girls/guys here about their choices. Curiosity is one thing, but making general assumptions like that about every girl in GS? I think you’ll see that not all of us are lacking in confidence to speak up for ourselves.