sorry to break it to you nami bhai, but it sure is a job interview. whether you are a husband or wife, its a life time job.
app zindagi k intay saal apnay app ko banay main isleya mhenat kerain k koe ayea or aik dum say app ko neechay gira day. or sirf app ko he nahi, app ke shaksiat ko, app k finances ko, app ko ideology ko.
if things are in your hands, then avail them wisely. there are many people who dont even have option have this option.
i am asking her to ask these questions cuz there is a 90-100% possibility guy wants to come abroad and explore different options in life, and since pakistan dont offer platforms to explore different venues whether we are talking in terms of career, or educational wise then its better to migrate.
but Pakistan (political instability) and also Pakistanis (visit visas staying here forever, or refuges) dont have good reputation so immigration process is also low, then why not marry a someone who already living there. its an easy way to get in to the system.
but the problem with guys over there is they think that girls living abroad are open mind. may be they are but then instead of forming a generalization, it is good formulate the consensus from person to person. but then ppl in Pakistan are also very formal. they wont gonna ask u, so its better to be confident and openly ask them their views. cuz not everyone here is a sl*t.
ps. dont forget to add him on facebook. facebook is also a good way to picture anyone :D.
even immigration ppl see it these days. 
ps.2 your husband seems like a reasonable and logical person to me. mashaALLAH say. who wont blindly gonna hear you, or his mother-sisters or anyone else. and will act like a man, where he should be.