Arranged Marriage: What if we never fall in love?

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Re: Arranged Marriage: What if we never fall in love?

@AbraCadabra

My marriage is going to be an arranged one, i am already engaged since 2-3 months. Its purely arranged and a very formal sophistication-full relation. It puts so many doubts in my mind what if i never fall in love with him or he never falls for me? Will it remain a relation that we just keep compromising for but dont feel its essence.

Has it happened with any one or these are just nervous attacks i am having?

People who do love marriage may also sometime end up loosing love for each other. There is no guarantee for anything. Keep your self and your thoughts good . Think positive about your husband and inlaws and try to keep quite on things that you don’t like atleast for sometime because everything will be new including your relationships and you will need sometime for adjustments.

It can take years for someone to actually fall in love. I have seen people being married for over 20+ years but having very little respect and no love for his/her spouse.