arranged marriage or love?

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does it have to be love for you or iis arranged.:slight_smile:

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oh hell ..

lets just say WHATEVER works for u ... life's too short to be worrying about these things kido .. focus on studies

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I agree with faizy as we dont need to stress about it. Now a days, relationships (in this case marriage) do not come with a guarantee tag..

A love marriage could be a total failure as people take things for granted and same can happen with arrange marriages too. You know what, in my opinion you have to be lucky to be a success story plus you can always work hard to turn your arranged into a loved one..

What do you say?

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nice thought :)

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its a gamble.. BOTH ways. . . equally deadly or equally rewarding.. 'nufsaid

isnt it funny
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aaaaaaaaah
spring is romantic :wub:

so :love: :love: :love:

:blush: enough said :wub:

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Love love love love love love love love love love love love love love love:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:

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…form me, I think i’ve just left to Allah - even though i’ve got the green flag from *Ammi *saying she trusts me to find someone decent for myself (i’ve got a friendship with my mum you see and she knows me quite well. Parents ke saath bana ke rakhne ka yahi to faida hai…):yahoo:

…But even then i’ve left it to Allah - he’ll find someone equally good for me :insha:

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Good luck Kani!!!
I found him by myself and there are no words to express the feeling…:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:

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Whatever works best 4 the individual.

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Jab kabhii hum kiya Ishq pashaymaa’n hovay
Zindagi hay tou abhi aur pashaymaa’n hongay …:smokin:+:chai:

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arranged

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Ahhaahahaha, well put. So succint. This has GOT to be THE most common topic on GS. Second would be masturbation. Scary, no?

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actually.. i was doing a cross-forum search for multiple entities, and… :rotfl: ‘what is love’ type is the first one ..

atleast kids are growing up and thinking of marriage.. bhalay its between arranged/love

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her marrige arrange plus love hotee hay ...

i can prove my statement ...

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oh F*ck with all this love crap...yes u fall in love and yes it hurts to see that same person getting agreed to have a rranged marriage....so just leave it upto the CREATOR who created YOU and just focus on other stuff in ur life!!! pissed..kids these days!

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PG........Go Ahead

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^ lakin main fees loon ge muft main itna bara kam nahi keroon gee

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bechi beta do to fees main duain doon gy :)....mera khayal tha k arrange marriage hi love ben jaty hay baad main

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^ app ko to bilkul he nahi bataoon ge app itne bareeeeeeeeeee ho gaye or shadi he nahi kee?