Re: Arranged Marraige - Questions!
Okay....I may sound really stupid here but I have a few questions about arranged marraige in Pakistan. I live in London and I just came back to Pakistan for a short holiday, mainly because my parents wanted to get me engaged.
Now..in the next couple of days we're supposed to go meet two girls and their families - in karachi. I dont know any of the girls and nor do my parents. We're going through a go-between who knows the girl and her family.
My question is - what am I supposed to do when we go to their house? I mean...am I allowed to talk to the girl and if so, what can I talk to her about? Are there any restrictions?
I have no problems talking to girls but I dont really know what to say or do in these circumstances so I hope someone can help me out!!! And tell me how such meetings go...because I'm totally lost!!
Good luck, just make sure you make the right choice, or leave on your "kismet"
Just be yourself and see what happen.