I work in the UK, born and brought up here, And now that I am 27 and alhamdullillah settled into a good job and have a stable life, I was thinking perhaps it’s time to get married. I have had many relationships growing up, and my most recent one was actually with a muslim girl who was serious about marriage before we did anything further. I understood, however, I had to break it off because we just weren’t working out. Forgive me for being subjective however I just cannot seem to find myself a good SO here.
I was wondering perhaps if I ask my mother to look for some girls in Pakistan for me, but under the pretence that it be treated more like an arranged introduction instead of an arranged marriage straight away? As in, we have 6months - 1year to talk and get to know each other before we confirm going forward.
Is this something that is accepted in Pakistan? Basically dating, just without any sexual contact etc… I don’t mean to sound vulgar, it’s just I’d much rather get to know someone before agreeing to marry them. I’ve known too many arranged marriages fall apart.
Hey Rajeev. Girls in pakistan are quite liberal. They can go out with you, dine with you, and goto parties with you.
Just an off topic question, have you tried Gobstopper candy? that jawbreakers that change colors and flavors.
Among all the girls in UK you can’t find one to marry! Even though you seem open to relationships outside your religion and culture!
That’s pretty strange. May be you need to look at yourself and see what’s the reason.
Mind you, there is no deal here offering 30 day money back gaurantee if hymen found damaged, if that’s what you are looking for.
Don’t listen to this gupshupper. You’ll end up dead if you go out with any girl in Pakistan, liberal or not. There are many tropical-skinned hunnies in india, so why not give that a try ( and you would come out alive if you dated them).
