Arrange Marriage

[Paheli00]

Re: Arrange Marriage

@MustafaQuraishi

For example, lets say i meet a girl and we upfront say that we are seeing each other for “possibility of rishta”. Lets say I am desperate to get hooked and I might try to be nice, be humble, show off all those things which possibly a decent girl want just to impress her so that we can get married.

Of course the possibility is there. But not everyone is good at faking things like being nice, humble, respectful etc. Not only the rishta prospects themselves but plenty of family members also do/say things that end rishta talks. If it was so easy for people to fake who they are in order to lead to a wedding, then we wouldn’t hear all these rishta “horror” stories.