People argue all the time. TRUE.
Some are good at it and some are really bad at it. THIS IS SUBJECTIVE. DEPENDING ON ONES POV, SOME ARE GOOD AT IT. AND THE SAME SOME COULD BE BAD FOR ANOTHER SET OF OBSERVERS.
Some focus on the matter being discussed and some focus on the emotions that the matter raises. MATTER BEING DISCUSSED CAN HAVE EMOTIONAL REACTIONS. SO IT IS NOT EITHER OR.
What’s your style? STATE FACTS. LISTEN TO OTHER SIDE. IF OTHER SIDE IS BLOWING HOT AIR, CALL THEM ON IT. IF OTHER SIDE MAKES VALID POINT, LEARN FROM IT.
What have you learned over the years? What works and what doesn’t work? LEARNED FROM EXPERIENCE IN THIS SITE - TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE POV OF THE MAJORITY AND BE SENSITIVE TO THEIR POV. MAKE POINT WITHOUT BEING A JACKASH.
How would you change your current technique? MY TECHNIQUE IS PERFECT NOW. NO CHANGE NEEDED.