Why do we argue?
For various reasons. Could be that the topic of discussion is something you’re very sensitive about…and can’t tolerate narrow-mindedness over it. Maybe in some way…your rights are not being considered or are being infringed upon.
How the other person reacts can even turn a discussion into an argument. When you’re dealing with someone who has too much pride…won’t listen/let you get a word in…has the my way or the highway attitude…you may feel more compelled to emphasize your points in an even stronger way…leading to an argument.
Discussions CAN increase knowledge and I think that when someone expresses their points in a civil way…you may be open to consideration. However if worded with arrogance…it can hinder that open mindedenss…cause resentment.etc.