Thanks for all your replies. Although it seems like a good idea to talk about it. but I think it depends on the issues. if the argument was very pointless or on some small matter is there really a need to beat the snake out of it? I agree if it something huge then there is a need. I find that if i bring it up again he gets a lil irritated and sometimes even we go back to the same point as we were at last.
Which makes me wonder, you know how the old wives tale goes that you shouldnt talk to him and see him that often after engagement till wedding. Is it true? does that eliminates these small stresses in the relationship?
My guy and i have been like best friends before anything so for me to stop talking to him just cause i am engaged to him seems like impossible. Yet, the expectations have changed and i can see why people would recommend that.
what you guys think?