Re: Arghhhh!!!
actually we will be getting married in november inshAllah so i am busy with shadi ki shopping etc…plus i am learning to cook as well…basically i am keeping myself busy secondly you have to understand that you cant be with this person all the time, in fact after shadi things will change more because he will have to divide his time between his work/parents/siblings/friends and you…so more adjustment to make on your part…as long as you are sure of your guy that he cares for you and loves you…it becomes easy to get accustomed to his ways…as far as how i became so understanding is concerned…i also used to fret over petty things like that …initially i bugged him alot but then he just explained things that i am making him worried by being paranoid …so he suggested to me that i keep myself busy with learning things that i will require after shadi etc or otherwise as well…so i had to calm myself…i know he is not going anywhere and we try to catch up once a week so its all fine now:)…
you do the same…keep yourself busy but dont feel bad if he doesnt contact you or send you an email… trust him when he says he is busy…dont doubt that he must be making up or doesnt want to talk to you…nothing wrong with initiating a conversation…do it without feeling bad towards him…try to involve him in everything you do by asking his suggestion…and enjoy your relationship:)