Its the same scenario here. We chatted before the engagement to get to know each other before consenting. Since we did that a lot i am kind of used to that compared to what it is now. I know its very difficult for him to manage and he has mentioned that to me as well but i don’t know why my expectations are still on to how our relation was originally. We don’t have much to talk about or know about each other anymore nor is the excitement there much. I know he needs all the time for his work and his life..but it just fails to get through my mind. I try to keep myself busy but my head is stuck there. How did you understand it all and gave him the space he needs? How did you become that understanding?