erm im 23.
aaarrrghgh....i always get it wrong. i thought you're between 20 to 21.
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In most offices men do not want their wives to be calling at all unless it is an emergency. We have so many matters and issues to resolve in the office, we are forced to forget the home issues and even our wives to concentrate on work. So don't expect lovey dovey calls from your hubby from daftar.
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I think you're makin a big deal out of it nadz ... hes uncomfortable with alot of things that u do ubt he still lets u do it rite ... so i think u can give him a lil space in this regard ... thats my opinion atleast and maybe over time he will chng and adapt more to ur way of doing thigns
stop maknig an issue out of everything and it'll be fine.
What this woman said.
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stuff the aunties.
Dont dwell on it
Im in an office enviroment too... its a bit difficult to be all cutesy wootsy when u have 3 people sitting next to u.. for important stuff there is text messaging.. for random stuff, theres emails..
just cus hes at work, doesnt mean he doesnt love u... he's there to make a good impression so he can bring back goodies for the one he loves... u.
be content with that
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Nadz............
You have a good husband and you seem to love him the way he is.
If you try to push him to be something he isnt or someone he isnt, you will turn him into a bad husband and you will have no one to blame but yourself because you will have pushed him that far.
So he is shy around your parents! Would you rather he be stuck to you like glue? Yuck!
So he likes to be professional at work! Would you rather he play on the phone with you during work hours? Again, yuck!
He doesnt have to work in an office, some people like to take their job seriously regardless of what it is.
He sounds like a nice guy, let him stay that way.
Like Sara said, stop making a big deal out of everything and whining all the time.
and that’s the bottom line people. Show’s over. Go home.
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I work and in my office they are all men. I can practically hear all of the conversations they are having on phone since we have open cubicals in our office and I have hardly heard any guy speaking to his wife and if someone does it's like " haan kiya lana hai wapsi par " , " bacha school sey aa gaya ? " etc. I don't think its possible to be lovey dovey in office too and in reality that doesn't sound decent as well. We have bedrooms to get lovey dovey.
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^ yea thats true! I too work in an office in gora environement, even these goras dont talk like that on the phone to their wives. So let him be the way he is.. probably he should be a bit more chatty infront of ur relatives but thats it.
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Besides, if guys have long chats with the wife during office hours, how will they find time to surf the web and Gupshup.
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^ lol! spot on.. it disturbs my "browsing" time
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u women just need an excuse to complain all the time 
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^ not all women thank u very much
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no not all just 99.99% of them :halo:
i have been with my guy from last 4yrs or so.. and its the record he Never Ever spoke to me more than 2mins. when he is at work....its always like that "hello assalamolaikum.. ye cheez chahiyye.. khudahafiz" ... OR..."aap ghar kab aayain gay? khudahafiz"
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I have the same problem
E X A C T L Y same situations lol but i have with time calmed myself down by just adjusting n repeating in my head regardless he love me so 
to messed up thoughts! 
does your husband/wife change their tone/mannerism with you once they are at work/away.
not in a negative way, but just different.
when my hubby is with me, hes different as in we are like kids running around messing about and hes ahusband. when hes at work and im on the phone to him, hes got this proffesional tone and just seems monotonous..now everyone at work knows he married, and im not suggesting anything dubious, hes honestly trustworthy typa guy, and i genuinly believe so. i just feel thats hes 2 diff people, one childlike and more fun and loving with me, even in front of my parents he has thisproffesional monotonous quiet reserved `personality. he says its to show respect and u cant behave like that in front pof parents and work mates, he does text me in all his breaks and whatnot.
gosh this sounds silly. i think maybe i try too muvh, maybe im xpecting a text or call all the time, and maybe its me.,theres actually no issue with him, im just finding one, and the fact that he doesnt say i love you baby gorogeous all the time to me at work, i feel like hes almost insulted me....
arghhh so i sound mad?I actually think hes a normal perosn, and its me expecting alot......his personality is diff to mine, im more outgoing, loud and dnt get shy about saying i love you or whatever to him in public....he does. its me that initiates holding hands in public, he gets weird in case my mum dad, or uncle aunty see us....what a weirdo....
another thing, hies from pak, im from the uk. maybe thats why.
GOSHHH sound me out and hit me please if i sound silly.
so you think your husband shall run in the office with mobile/office phone, giggle, laugh and shout out loud I love you. WTF?
yes, you SOUND mad. Actually, you don't sound mad, you ARE MAD!