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December 9, 2009, 4:52pm
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does your husband/wife change their tone/mannerism with you once they are at work/away.
not in a negative way, but just different.
when my hubby is with me, hes different as in we are like kids running around messing about and hes a husband. when hes at work and im on the phone to him, hes got this proffesional tone and just seems monotonous..now everyone at work knows he married, and im not suggesting anything dubious, hes honestly trustworthy typa guy, and i genuinly believe so. i just feel thats hes 2 diff people, one childlike and more fun and loving with me, even in front of my parents he has this proffesional monotonous quiet reserved `personality. he says its to show respect and u cant behave like that in front pof parents and work mates, he does text me in all his breaks and whatnot.
gosh this sounds silly. i think maybe i try too muvh, maybe im xpecting a text or call all the time, and maybe its me.,theres actually no issue with him, im just finding one, and the fact that he doesnt say i love you baby gorogeous all the time to me at work, i feel like hes almost insulted me…
arghhh so i sound mad?I actually think hes a normal perosn, and its me expecting alot…his personality is diff to mine, im more outgoing, loud and dnt get shy about saying i love you or whatever to him in public…he does. its me that initiates holding hands in public, he gets weird in case my mum dad, or uncle aunty see us…what a weirdo…
another thing, hies from pak, im from the uk. maybe thats why.
GOSHHH sound me out and hit me please if i sound silly.
there is something called professional decorum, and also what you are doing, having lovey dovey calls may not work well with it. as far as PDA ppl are different and some are more into it and others are not. whether local grown or transplants or recent imports upbringing is a factor.