Trust me i have a lot of patience and i have been able to put up with their acts for the past 2 and half years but now i really really need the secret too - apart from buying them presents etc...
Sorry to put sour post on your thread!
I am confused too if everything is so honky dory and ideal then what would someone need the patience for ?
Even the patience of the Prophets of Allah ran out with arrogant people.