about the things own, or people you have any kind of relationship with?
cuz i have i noticed one thing and that is if you dont care something or someone, chance are others not only gonna misuse those things, but also they gonna humiliate those things/people.
but dont forget there is a difference being over-protective and being possessive.
i think my natural tendency used to be, because my mom told me i used to beat up my sister in her crib if she took my stuff. but now that i have to share EVERYTHING i have become almost indifferent. i look at my brothers compared to my friends, and think they are so cool...like my thuggy bro had to share a room with my parents for one month and he didn't even care..he was totally cool with it. inshAllah if i ever have kids, i'm going to make them share rooms so they get used to compromise. makes me wonder...whether kids who come from big families or share rooms have lower divorce rates?