I have the misfortune of marryin a loser... he perfectly fits each and every point mentioned here. i cry and cry and cry. i tried shutting my mouth... he gets angry at the slightest things and blames me for his violent outbursts. i m only prayin things change after we have a baby but i m not sure they will. i dread each and every day what my baby would witness.. disrespect, disregard for me and anger and insult targeted at me... thaz the prb with asian societies... we marry, we have to adjust, period.. life is so painful and having a bad life partner, makes life hell....