Lol at wrath of Khan. His last name happens to be Khan. I am so using this phrase in front of our kids :D
Yeah that has happens thrice but then it was annoying because I don't wanna be scared of him. I wanna respect him. We talked about it & now I kinda know certain things that tick him off. He thinks I am too seedhi & kind of doesn't like the part where I am always willing to help others. I am working on it. Kind of.
How do I handle the situation when he gets mad. I let him know I didn't know he was not gonna like what I did, apologize (that's a big big deal for me as I firmly believe in only apologizing when you really mean it) & promise I'll be careful next time. Masla solved. He does the same if situation is reversed.
The only way of preventing future wars is knowing what your spouse likes & dislikes & I am not talking colors or food here. Major moral values. As long as husband & wife share the same values. There are hardly any wars.