its a trick....as they say "Bud say Budnam bura".
if you see around you (or your family in particularly) men are the ones who hold grudges. we women have soft corner. and we forgive easily (to get beaten once again). we women also have cat fights and we try to solve matters using *dialogues *(forgetting the very fact that the issue will reappear).
its life. and men dont like to be fooled over n over again. but they forget that they are connected to these people.
only that you gals use Punjabi gandasa movie dialogs ....