Do you talk about your feelings with people or not?
If something goes wrong…do you keep it to yourself or do you vent as soon as possible so you can feel better about it?
Im quiet…I dont talk about things until I am done processing the information myself. Usually that results in me holding back anger/frustration and letting it out at the most inopprtune moments. However, its something I am working on.
I am similar to how you have described. I tend to keep things in for ages, and just cry in private if need be, lol. However, I find if something is really bothering me, it does eventually just burst out. This can occasionaly be inappropriate (I can think of such an example in the last week), but mainly if I do let out it is to my close friends, after which I feel much better :)
A few times there has been something that ive not wanted to share with anyone and have just kept in my head, i've thought it over,and then put it away in my mind and hopefully thats the end of it.
But most of the time, my family can usually tell if theres something troubling me and so i confide in them, more likely my sisters or my husband. After talking it over with them and getting a new perspective or just simply by talking with them, tends to make me feel somewhat better.
But otherwise im definietly a private person, i would never share troubles except with those very close to me.
i try my hardest to be private but once i find somebody i can really talk to, i just vomit out everything that’s on my mind it’s a weakness that i’m working on
.. lol umm i dunnu i never really ever felt the need to discuss anythin seriouse with anyone .. like if it's something really seriouse i guess i wont share it publicly .. But other then that i'm a really open person... lol i really dunnu .. ye ai never needed to share anythin or keep it private ....lol
Definitely private, only ever open up to people who I know I can trust. I think this is down to having a good relationship with my mum, as I will just confide in her instead of friends.
It depends on the situation. If it is not a personal issue (annoying people on the subway or something), I let my annoyance show to whoever I am talking to (if it is relevant). If it is a personal issue, well, it depends on the situation. Usually I share it with family/friends who would understand or be able to advise me.
I share personal stuff with people if I can't seem to get anywhere with it. But I won't call myself a private person.
^yip, i've noticed that men that have female friends understand women so much better or atleast men that make the effort to be around women and listen to what a female has to say are much nicer to be around.
i am a big big big time open person. talk about all the **** happening in my life. but amazingly only .05 percent is truth out of all what i tell.
So i tell ppl not to trust me :nono: