Are you a possessive person?Is it a good thing to be possessive in a relationship?
And what really makes a person possessive in a relationship?And how can one get rid of possessiveness?
Please share your thoughts.
Yes I'm possessive but not that much kay zabardasti kisi ko roak kar rakhoon agar wo person dil say naheen chahay meray saath rehna ya talluq rakhna to I'll let that person go.
I believe in doing anything from film "Dil Say". No dil to live or have contact with me then go where you want. I won't say a single time "Ruk ja o janay wali ruk ja main to rahi teri manzil ka, Daikhnay main main bura sahi aadmi bura naheen main dil ka. Ruk jaa, Ruk jaa".
Yes it is a good thing to be possive in a relationship. That possesiveness come because of love. Jitna shakar utna mitha. Jitna love utna possessiveness.
But we have to draw a line between possessiveness and respect others right and chahat dil ki. If you love a person you will always look for that person's happiness rahter than your own happiness.
How to get rid of possessiveness is to start loving that person from film "Dil Say" and True love. True love don't want a person to stay with us without his dil but want us that persons happiness where ever that person lives and whom that person lives with.