Re: Are women subjugated in Pakistani society?
I am a man and do think that in general women are subjugated in Pakistan. I think this subjugation falls on a spectrum which varies across rural and urban areas, and across families in each type of location.
I do not feel defensive against such a statement because I do not participate in this subjugation, and do not feel as if a finger is being pointed at me.
I am proud to say my mother and sister have each had a career, and have done very well at it. It is entirely possible for a woman to have a career without compromising her marriage or parenting. My sister's son is one of the most well behaved children I have ever seen.
In my opinion, economic need is not the only reason for a woman to pursue a career. It could also be done for the sake of fulfillment and to live to one's potential. My mother retired as a professor but still takes on consulting projects from time to time because she finds reward in teaching.