Re: Are Women Programmed to Please?
Not necessarily, most men who are abusive toward stheir wives and kids…were themselves abused as children…in some generations it just repeats, until someone stops the cycle, realizes that what they’re doing isn’t right…and that beating a wife and children isn’t right
Re: Are Women Programmed to Please?
Yes I took that in the way you said. But t could mean as if the trait of pleasing is somehow wrong and it is because they are not trained (well). Hence it was unnecessary to add. 
Re: Are Women Programmed to Please?
Both are programmed to please. Women show it with their emotions while men with their money and protection.
Women - in a abusive relationship don’t continue the relationship due to pleasing. I think it’s more due to fear, and then out of fear they do their best to please, to prevent further abuse.
It’s a vicious circle. I have seen instances - where a women does something and the man may hit her, this is his way of asserting control - I have seen it diminish a women’s character - it’s saddening.
Re: Are Women Programmed to Please?
One good way to put it.
Same goal, different tools.
Re: Are Women Programmed to Please?
when will you acknowledge that you didnt understand the English written.
Re: Are Women Programmed to Please?
When it happens.