Re: Are u satisfied with the way ur parent act as inlaws to some girl.?
I'll get real :D
I didnt speak to my dad for 5 yrs cuz of da way he dealt with my bhabi.
He has this habit of instigating my bros. And my bros being da obedient sons listened to him and their married life got pretty messy. To da extent one of my bhabi and her 4 kids went back to her parents house. And my bro let her. I fought for her all da way. and i dun regret it. i'm da youngest sis and had no choice but to speak up to my elder bro. i knew it was unacceptable for them (they grew up in pk while i was raised here in singapore)
to cut da long story short, eventually when my dad was on his death bed in pk it was my bhabi and her family who took care of him. i wish i can be as forgiving as them.
i cant believe my dad cud be so heartless. when he was in his last stage of cancer i made a fone call to him and asked him how are u. thats it.
its been 3 years now. i still cant forget the pain my bhabhi and her kids had to go thru. i wish i had done more for them. but life goes on, i've learnt so much from my dad's mistakes. May Allah (swt) bless his soul.
Re: Are u satisfied with the way ur parent act as inlaws to some girl.?
When I first got married and went to stay with my in laws for a month, I was just trying to get closer to my in laws by getting to know there jovial friends. They started talking about how women love diamonds and jewelry and to that I just joked around that "oh yea I love diamonds and can't wait for my hubby to get me some jewelry:D". My FIL has a very short temper and just started yelling at me in front of his friends....I was just taken aback and shocked. I didn't really understand why he got all crazy. I realized that I just need to not say anything much to my in laws after that.
I would never expect my father or mother to do something like that with my babhi and she jokes around all the time with my whole family. They just totally love her so much.
Re: Are u satisfied with the way ur parent act as inlaws to some girl.?
thats wot i was abt to ask..
Re: Are u satisfied with the way ur parent act as inlaws to some girl.?
My dad hasn't spoken to my bhabi in over 2 years even though she lives with us. She's his sister's daughter and there were alot of problems when she first came over, mostly with my mum but they usually got sorted out quickly and my mum's pretty forgiving, but she said some rude stuff about my dad to her own family and we found out and he hasn't spoken to her since. I have quite a good relationship with my bhabi myself but when I think about the things she did in the past I just wanna slap her!
I think he'd probably be ok with her if she only apologised but she never has, so I guess it'll always be like this.
Re: Are u satisfied with the way ur parent act as inlaws to some girl.?
Of course most people will think their parents make the best in-laws. Probably, they really do believe it, but perceptions might be different from the other side.