are u afraid

of old age?

seriously…

how do u view old age?

what do u hope that u may never have to experience when u are old?

Re: are u afraid

nops i m not... zindgee ki jhanjantoon say chutakara jungle main ik jhugiya banaon ge or aman sakoon say rahoon gee

Re: are u afraid

frankly speaking
YES
And one of my wishes is to depart this world while I am still able to feed, clean and walk by myself :flower1:
I would rather die than ask someone to help me stand up, or to stuff food in my mouth

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not now but I might be scared when reach an old age.

well said Uncle Stalker

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ditto

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exactly my papa’s thoughts ..gar wale kahte hen he used to say that i dont want to be on death bed for so long that even my family get tired of me ..his wish was granted .

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Soo true. Elders say this all the time.

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a lil....but gotta get old...becum a grandmaa

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how sweet:>

u took the fear and turned it into a motivation.
this is a great example of optimists who are realists
best,

dushi

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i am not afraid of death...we belong to Allah and to Allah is our return.

However 2 things that i pray that i will nvr have to face when im old.....

  1. as US mentioned...becoming so old that i am unable to take care of myself and i have to rely on others.

  2. my child dying before me...im not a mother yet but i am pretty sure that i would nvr want to be faced with my child dying before me. :(

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me too :)

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like others said...i am scared of dependency...
depending on others to feed u,take care of u ,dress u etc......
i saw my grandmother like that...she spent the last 5 years on bed and getting miserable and helpless everyday...
thats what scares me.....

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Double Ditto :-/

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HaYe raaba ........... burapa Soch kr chakar ata hi

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Asking others to do little things for you..and when you rely on others to do each and everything...thats what scares me the most about old age..dependancy..
I have recently started volunteering at a rehab center..and it is really scarey to watch..

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iam afraid of turning 20 :bummer: kahee ama mayri shadi hee na kara day :smiley:

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dont be afraid of old age dushwari aunty...it happens..we all gotta go through it =)

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baba ama ne mujhse kal foon p keh diya ab tumhari shadi nahi hogi imeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen iss sal nahi

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tumhain shaadi ka bahoot sauq hai :hoonh: …koi baat nahi jab ho gey to woh bi uter jai ga.:dixsi:

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per kab hogee.. kia us nay bataya kay kis kay sath hogee :blush: