Or is it the other way round.
What has been your experience.
Personally i have found that religious minded people are more judgemental, there judgement is clouded by other people’s religious views and at times an be very hateful of others.
On positive side, i have also found that they are more likely to be honest and keep their word.
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Religious people more judgemental? That is a judgement itself and quite an unfair one.
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Are religious people difficult to deal with?
in most cases i have noticed they are, they always think they are right, and ready to argue every single case. makes me wish i never started a conversation with them in the first place...
But i have also seen very calm religious people who will get their point across in a respectful way, and those r the people who i listen too....:)
Are religious people difficult to deal with?
in most cases i have noticed they are, they always think they are right, and ready to argue every single case. makes me wishs i never started a conversation with them in the first place...
But i have also seen very calm religious people who will get their point across in a respectful way, and those r the people who i listen too....:)
u can remove the word "religious" from this and still hold it true....
Religious people more judgemental? That is a judgement itself and quite an unfair one.
Yep.
u can remove the word "religious" from this and still hold it true....
if i remove the word"religious" then what would be the point of my post in this thread?
this is just my view, and what i have seen from people i knw to be "Religious". now plz dont make me wish why i ever posted the post in the first place.....:D
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they just love to give fatwas every where they go and they are mostly like u will go to hell for that:hmmm: .they can be less annoying if they keep their views up to themself and not impose on ppl
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Telling/informing people about something is not imposing it on them.They are 2 different things.
Its each & every individuals duty to pass on the knowledge they have to another.So i don’t see anything wrong in that.
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^ i agree with that dewdropas, but if someone does not conform to their idea "some" of them become hostile for no reason.
wallekum salam…
knowledge is the best gift u can give someone, but depends on the way u go about it. if your giving knowledge to someone in a patronizing way then what are the chances of tht person using tht piece of knowledge/advice effectively…
or another thing i have noticed if someone is trying to seek knowledge or questions something, people will say “ohh tht is a sin” and “u shouldnt question it” e.g. on a thread where a guppy asked about “the new Quran” instead of telling her politely “there is no new Quran”. Someone went straight at her and told her she was comitting a sin, but she was only seeking knowledge so wats wrong with tht?
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I dnt think they're difficult to deal with necessarily. They might come off that way because they are passionate about religion. And because we feel like we're not at their level, we might be a bit touchy and sensitive to things they say.
Imposing religion on other people is a different story.
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For some reason I've found that when people find God they feel that they are somehow better than other people called the "holier than thou" effect. I guess in the end a truly spiritual person would know that only God knows best and only Allah is the true judge, so I'd say people who 'act' or 'pretend' to be religious are hard to deal with, but people who have reached true wisdom and religious spirituality are not.
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Best comments from Colourfu eyes... I agree and this is the way it should be!
and valid points made by AR Mughal and Dewdrop2, and CE's replies explains what and how to deal :-)
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Depends who u dealin with it. Majority religious ppl r nice, i wud say 90% + r nice but there r always some ppl every where
Religious people are usually pretty rigid and want u to blv what they're saying and when u disagree that's when they begin lecturing u. If the message is conveyed in a decent fashion without being so harsh and always pointing out (u'll go to hell) I blv people wud intercept it better..
There was a great show once where an Islamic Scholar was teaching parents to create love for Allah in childrens' hearts rathar than feeding them with grotesque horror stories of how in hell u'd be made to drink pus/blood etc.. and how u'll burn and suffer.
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^ Gino teri Shadi Molvi se hoghee
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The really knowledgeable religious people are a joy to deal with even if you fundamentally disagree. The johnny come lately, highly political types who fit the neem mullah khatra e iman role, they are the ones who are a complete pain to deal with.
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Problem is always a reaction of some action, we call it a problem when we can't find the solution or on the other hand problem occurs when the second person fails to explain!
Since mostly human wishes everything be according to their frequency but in reality its not possible atleast in many cases, some times the listener could be faulty and some times speaker!
Some people like some one and some ignore some other set of people!
So, pick the persson you like and try to fix any problem in a decent way! Take every thing you like and then move on!
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Halway khay khay ke josh to aana he hai na??????????
Kahni to nikaliN gaye na!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!