is it just me who feels this way or is this actually true?
Ive met all sorts of people in life…I mean sometimes people get surprised that how do I know so many people. From very religious people to the totally opposite. I know them all. but I havent yet met anyone that I would say is “rude”…I didnt know the meaning of the word until I came here on Gupshup.
theres certain people that are nice here…but I would say AT LEAST half the people here are REALLY rude. why is that? is that cuz they cant take their frustration etc. out on people in the REAL world…and come here and do it or what?
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ppl here, who know me ... personaly or are frinz for long enough know that i differ from wat i m online in my real lyfe .. theyd say i m quite a bit more agressive but i dont think i m harsh at all. n besides ppl down here most probably take it as a side kick fun or watever ... dont attach no feelings to it ... atleast i dont !
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I have only really started visiting gupshup regulary and I think that some people can be rude, but I think it because they think it is okay to be rude because you dont know them and cant see them while they are being rude. Its so easy to be rude when you are being rude to someone who isnt in front of you.
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yeah I know wot u mean. cuz no1s ever been rude to me in real life…(not that I can remember anyway)…I have never been rude to anyone either.
so people usually say im really nice and a sweet person. and unlike the majority of the girls in Uk.
but im thinking now that these people are being rude to me…sometimes I cant help but be rude back. and i hope it doesnt have an affect on my personality too…cuz I have seen gupshup change certain peoples personality
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aww thanks Impulse
i got into some arguments yaar recently …but i never start being rude..its only in reply..coz i dont want ppl to walk all over me.. i used to be a much sweeter person before tho..like even when ppl were rude i would not be mean in reply i would still be sweet
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lol too late to realize i guess lol
n u sayin that lol i thought i was always nice to u .. i guess i just cant over flood myself with anyones feelings.
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normally I dont think much of it…its justs for example in my other thread I asked “how do u tell some1 u love them?” and then some1 replied back saying “after reading your posts…I dont think u should tell anyone that u love them”
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impulse - you have?! that’s kinda scary
well, i usually try being nice back, even if they’re rude to me. SOME PEOPLE ( i will take no names ) are rude even when you try being nice to them . just because you’ve made a few immature mistakes i dunno if they are meaning to be rude on purpose, or if it just seems like they’re being rude to me
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people can be rude here and still stay anonymous no one who can point fingers at them, and if their nick gets a bad name once, they just go and come back with a different nick :halo:
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impulse: thats wat i m talkin abt .. i got some TAINED pets too .. who always follow me and try thier arse hard to throw shiz bak at me , eventhough i tend/try to be nice .. but its just NO USE !!!
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I havent ever seen you be rude…
that’s kinda scary 
. just because you’ve made a few immature mistakes 
