Re: Are girls from Pakistan really different to girls raised in the west?
The place of upbringing does matter but it's the individual's personality as well that makes them different.
Re: Are girls from Pakistan really different to girls raised in the west?
let the meeting happen at your place first. after the first meeting instead of asking her out for lunch/dinner, get your sisters to make some lunch/dinner plan and invite her along. it would be good to begin with. later on if you feel you two clicks then you can ask her out on your own.
Re: Are girls from Pakistan really different to girls raised in the west?
Thanks for all the suggestions and encouraging advice. I'm thinking too far ahead. Who knows maybe she won't like me..maybe no girl will like me again.
I do not know if i deserve such good advice but thank you for all the comments. Sorry about bombarding the forum with all these question. It's just a tough time right now. I want to think positive and think of moving on in a positive way. I think meeting a girl for rishta again is making me nervous. I feel maybe because of my past i might not worth it. That i'm broken and no one would want a broken person rather than a whole person.
Re: Are girls from Pakistan really different to girls raised in the west?
I'd say they would be culturally different. In our society it's widely accepted that different cultures have different norms and practices as to what's accepted in a particular society and culture.
In pakistan dramabazi and chalakis are commonplace, so one would assume that these things are more than likely to be present due to it being socially acceptable.
Much like British "politeness" in the UK we say please, thank you after every little action that someone does for us, therefore one would assume that a brit would do these things.