If someone asks me if my brother is bad, I will definitely say NO!
But if someone asks me if I want to live away from my brother and his wife after marriage, my answer is definitely YES!
See...just because lots of people don't want to live with their in-laws doesn't mean in-laws themselves are inherently bad. After all, our own parents are someone's in-laws too. But would you want your hubby to live with them? My point is just because you don't want to live with someone, doesn't mean you don't love them.