Approaching some one who is approaching some one.

Lifestyle Relationships
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Suppose you liked some one. And you kind of got same vibes from them.

Then you did not take things to next level for some reason.

Then you saw them approaching some one, because they could’t put their life on hold for you.

Now how do you approach such a person? Who is practically approaching some one else.

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Re: Approaching some one who is approaching some one.

Better leave them alone if you can't take things to next level.

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JK, you will be spanked by someone who will be spanked by someone

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You should approach the person they are approaching and get there first. This way you can meet the first person that you really wanted to approach. Seems like a nice short cut.

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I would say approach from behind and it should go something like that

‘‘bahoooooooooooo … baji der gayee baji der gayee’’ :cb:

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you get the prise. :D

But seriously...

ppl come on..

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Re: Approaching some one who is approaching some one.

Depends on how early or late in the approach they are. If they're not committed to the other person and are just exploring a friendship, you can "test the waters" and express your interest - then it's up to them. If they're committed to the other person, sorry, but it's too late for you.

But, like WF99 just said, don't make the approach unless you're actually to committed to making an effort - that's unfair to the person.

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seriously sehrysh?? hmmmmm

WF you made me think :hmmm: real deep.
but …its not easy is it.. the next level.

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Bad advice. You may end up in a crash landing.

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Jimmy. No need to say anything to him. Just go up to him and do this:

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From the behind!!

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BBQ

we guys have hearts too.

I am so disappointed in all of you.

I need real advice.

Approaching form behind sounds like awaz-y-khalaq hmmm

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Re: Approaching some one who is approaching some one.

Trust you will never go wrong.....

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Real advice chahiye bachay ko?

Sadkay jaun.

Idhar ao.

Baitho idhar.

Esplain.

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Approach with a bouquet, congratulate em for having being approached by your successor, and walk off. Cry beneath the pillow that night. For whole night.

And look for someone better the next day (I don't like gloomy endings:()

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Re: Approaching some one who is approaching some one.

You mean very next day.

I found that rather insensitive of you.

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chaloo Noon tak wait ker loo...

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Of course you can choose to wait for a break too. OopSs this is more insensitive:(

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Give up on this one and find yourself a new birdy to approach!

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You say that this girl is approaching someone else.

So, first....find out if she is already in a relationship. If she is, then leaving her alone would be best.

If she's not in a relationship, then....BEFORE....you even decide to start contact with her...you need to decide if you will be able to take things to the next level if a relationship develops with her. If you still can't take things to the next level, then it's a waste of her time and yours.....and that would be like leading her on (in the event that she develops a mutual interest).