Approaching a guppy

well internet is not hte only place to look for prospect spouse/partner. but if you fail to find any compatible option in your surrounding and internet is the only best place left then you cant deny that guys have some issues.

so the best way left for the girls is to initiate (keep your ego and hopes low), and let the guy make the move. but check a head that is your and hims relationship even possible?

whether you agree or not, marriages among desis mean connecting two families and not just to individuals.

if i personally put myself in the position and like a guppy i wont initiate except for pray for him that may ALLAH SWT grant him better than me. cuz i dont believe that “words” should be my only premises to fall for anyone and then also pressurize my parents for him.

even though i dont trust much people here and i also dont approve the idea of internet dating…but only ALLAH SWT knows where my fate will take me. (mera to waki main ALLAH he hafiz hai)