Approaching a guppy

Re: Approaching a guppy

well guppans must see where the guppy is standing in terms of education (both religious and worldly affairs), his approach in life, his reviews and stands on different issues.

and then compare it with your reviews. compare your differences and similarities. if you believe that he is smarter than you then approach him with genuineness. so PM him. keep in mind that you met him online so dont take everything he tells you on face value cuz we usually try to hide our bad things as much as we can.

also try to locate that how many multis he is using. if you cant locate the information about his multis then try to figure out that how many guppies just sound like him. never forget that you fall for their words. so it is better to analyze each and every option.

if he ignores that you approached him then either he didnt appreciate you being the boss of his life or either he is not interested in you or either he is not into an online dating or either has other commitment or either has his own constraints, or either he is gay or either he is not what he is and dont wana fool you or either HE IS A GIRL!

so instead of being a stalker and a psychopath leave the poor soul alone.

ps. the best thing is not to look for a potential partner online.
ps2. girls, please complete your education first. and let your parents find a guy for you or atleast discuss the idea that if you (the girl) bring in some guy. do they like the idea? if they dont mind you meeting anyone then sure get involve with someone online....but remember you are not the only one reading that "Most eligible Bachelors" post.

ps3. just pray that the guppy who portrays as single, is really really single (and no kids...if you mind).

Re: Approaching a guppy

Noones approaching me :(

so basically stay single?
hmmm

Direct, PM and talk..

well internet is not hte only place to look for prospect spouse/partner. but if you fail to find any compatible option in your surrounding and internet is the only best place left then you cant deny that guys have some issues.

so the best way left for the girls is to initiate (keep your ego and hopes low), and let the guy make the move. but check a head that is your and hims relationship even possible?

whether you agree or not, marriages among desis mean connecting two families and not just to individuals.

if i personally put myself in the position and like a guppy i wont initiate except for pray for him that may ALLAH SWT grant him better than me. cuz i dont believe that "words" should be my only premises to fall for anyone and then also pressurize my parents for him.

even though i dont trust much people here and i also dont approve the idea of internet dating....but only ALLAH SWT knows where my fate will take me. (mera to waki main ALLAH he hafiz hai)

I know ehh :D

You took the question to heart:p

Jeezus zobia, get a job! :hehe:

Naa just kidding. I couldn’t read the whole thing that you wrote but I am sure its full of wisdom. :k: