So anyways , I think we all got carried away here a bit and started assuming that ‘‘seeing’’ women on GS is that easy . Just try to analyze this issue from a very eligible and sincere bachelor’s point of view but who is shy . The very first few steps will be very important . As from your posts what I understand is that sequence goes something like .
1 . Posting on the wall
2 . Adding each other to friends’ list
3 . Sending PM
and so on . But do you guys really think that a girl will take it with a serious intention too ? Won’t she be considering it as a regular everyday GS business ?
My plan is simple... you annoy them much..
till they drop their nice act and ask "what the F is your problem"
Then you say "i liked you"
Then she goes "leave me alone"
Then you leave them alone.
Then happily ever after.
True not about me :)
But its kinda interesting to annoy someone to the limits and then tell her that you like her . . . hmmm . . . very unique approach indeed . I wonder what guppans think about it .
But its kinda interesting to annoy someone to the limits and then tell her that you like her . . . hmmm . . . very unique approach indeed . I wonder what guppans think about it .
1- you meet them an aap ky ender ek music sa chir jaata hy…(you keep them as they are–precious)
2-Ones who want to be around and annoy you… Now these are the tricky ones.
You got to give them a chance too. … since First one is HARD to come by :hinna:
So working on second ones(annoying little witches)… you got break them to simple components to see what they are actually made off.
In that process you learn to live with them.. and kind of grow together…
My child…
now go and … do the right thing…
(unless its her )
If you (and I use the term "you" generically) meet someone you think is like-minded, sure chatting with them would be nice, but you should be motivated by wanting to have a pleasant conversation. Expecting more on the basis of an online friendship is complicated especially when people are located in all four corners of the world and you only get snippets of information about them - never the whole picture. Added to that, people tend to build up others in their mind and there is always the possibility of disappointment when the online persona and the image you create in your mind doesn't match the reality.
So no harm in proceeding and pursuing, but do so with caution and consider the possibility of losing an anonymous online friend - is it worth it (and maybe it is).
Oh, and on the "let's annoy a girl so I can tell her I like her" is soooo grade school. It's like when the boys in class would yank on a girl's pigtail to get her attention.
True not about me :)
But its kinda interesting to annoy someone to the limits and then tell her that you like her . . . hmmm . . . very unique approach indeed . I wonder what guppans think about it .
If you (and I use the term "you" generically) meet someone you think is like-minded, sure chatting with them would be nice, but you should be motivated by wanting to have a pleasant conversation. Expecting more on the basis of an online friendship is complicated especially when people are located in all four corners of the world and you only get snippets of information about them - never the whole picture. Added to that, people tend to build up others in their mind and there is always the possibility of disappointment when the online persona and the image you create in your mind doesn't match the reality.
So no harm in proceeding and pursuing, but do so with caution and consider the possibility of losing an anonymous online friend - is it worth it (and maybe it is).
Oh, and on the "let's annoy a girl so I can tell her I like her" is soooo grade school. It's like when the boys in class would yank on a girl's pigtail to get her attention.
Agree :) If face-to-face relationships can be complicated....virtual ones...where you've never seen the person....can be even more so. Apart from the possibility of "building the individual up in your mind" and then being let down....trust is another huge issue with online relationships.